I don't think you're fine with it, unless being "fine with it" means you don't think you deserve better, or that for you, half a man is better than no man. And if you are really genuinely "fine with it" as you say, because you belive this is the best you can do, how will you feel when he ends it, as he most certainly will, once he gets bored with having it both ways without the spice of drama to liven things up. And what about his hapless other, no-sex girlfriend? ? No one gives a shit about her? Is she "fine" with all this too, or happy just not asking any questions? And what about sexual disease? Almost certainly you are not the only one whose bed (other than his "hands-off girlfriend) he finds comfort in. I hate guys like him. As for you, please have more self-respect. You can (and will) do better!